Bible references:
Matthew 19:1–9, 22:29, 1Timothy 4:13–15, Joshua 1:8,
Matthew 19:1–9, 22:29, 1Timothy 4:13–15, Joshua 1:8,
Colossians 3:13; Ephesians 4:31–32.
God speaks to every individual in diverse ways. Yours
might not be the high vision type. Most times, the way God speaks to us is not
the way we think.
The word of God is true; the Bible says that not an iota of
His word would go unfulfilled. Therefore, hold on tight to the word of God.
Marriage is built on the basis of the word of God.
Joshua 1:8 “This book of the law shall not depart out of
thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest
observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt
make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success” KJV.
Every
word spoken out of our mouth should be filled with the word of God. Allow God
in your marriage and courtship.
No matter how young you are
now, start praying about your spouse, children, marriage, in – laws etc. Begin
to prepare.
The container does not matter. Samson made that mistake and his
destiny was destroyed forever. The 2 partners must be actively involved in the
relationship (courtship), otherwise the active one should withdraw.
INGREDIENTS OF A RELATIONSHIP.
- Ingredient of Initiation.
Whatsoever God initiates, He
will back it up as long as He is the one that initiated it.
- Ingredient of Love.
God himself is love and love must be in your courtship
and marriage. Love covers a multitude of sins. Many waters cannot quench love.
SOS 8:7 “Many waters cannot
quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the
substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned” KJV
- Ingredient of Tolerance. Col 3:13
Some, over tiny things have
broken their courtship. Your courtship is different from your friend’s. Bring
out the best in your relationship.
Cast wrath and anger away,
don’t speak evil of your partner, don’t keep malice.
God bless you.